Attached update to the welcome leaflet following some feedback. It now
reads "We welcome female identifying and non-binary folk of all ages (18+),
fitness levels and abilities".
Can committee folk organise printing it out and laminating a couple?
Sal xx
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On Sun, 13 Jun 2021 at 17:25, Sally Wood <salwood82(a)gmail.com> wrote:
Hi Cows,
at this weeks QGM we had a discussion about trans and non-binary
inclusivity. In fitting with our inclusive and anti-homophobic/transphobic
ethos we have always been open to trans women and non-binary players.
However, we realised that this has been more of an un-written rule and
we've never really advertised the fact or explicitly stated it anywhere, so
these players may not know they would be welcome. Secondly, we wanted to
make sure that everyone on the team is aware of this, so that we have any
potential discussions now rather than making anyone feel that they were
being singled out in the future.
So, we would like to open up the discussion here. When other teams in our
network have had trans women playing for them, any complaints have tended
to be that these players might be unfairly or unsafely strong/physical (due
to both build and having been used to the men's game). The counter to this
has been that any cis woman could also be physically larger, stronger, of a
higher standard and/or more agressive than we are used to as a team.
The issue instead then becomes a separate one of how do we maintain a safe
and welcoming environment for *all *our players, including those who have
just started playing the game, are recovering from injuries or are
vulnerable due to past injuries etc. Because our core ethos as a team has
always been that we are open to players of all abilities and fitness
levels, we have a rule of no hard tackles (especially slide tackles) or
aggressive play*. This ethos has been fostered by all of us, and it is up
to us as players to have a word with someone who is playing a bit too
rough. This would apply to any trans or non-binary players just the same.
Apart from discussing it openly, we also decided that we should clarify
all this on the welcome leaflet and issue statements on all our social
medias. Our welcome leaflet currently states:
"*Training is for all abilities and is safe, inclusive,
supportive, friendly and FUN - please no hard tackles or aggro!*"
"*The ECCSSC is anti-racist, anti-sexist, anti-fascist and
anti-homophobic. We respect the rights, dignity and worth of every person
and will treat everyone equally regardless of age, ability, gender,
race, ethnicity, religious belief, sexuality or social/economic status*"
(this is from the full club constitution).
I propose adding '*anti-transphobic*' to that list, and also adding a
line saying that "*Easton Cowgirls are open to all trans women and
non-binary players who share our core ethos and values*". I've attached
an updated version of the welcome leaflet for anyone who cares to check
over and make sure you're ok with it.
Then on our various social medias we can issue a statement saying the
above followed by a bullet list of our ethos and values.
We also talked at the meeting about optionally starting to say our
pronouns at training when we do our round of names, for anyone who feels
comfortable doing so.
Any comments? Additions? Suggestions? Worries? If you don't feel
comfortable replying to everyone here, talk to a committee member or
someone else you feel comfortable talking to.
Big Cow Love,
Sal xx
*Of course football is a physical game and some players in our team like
to play a bit more competitively or physically, and as we all get to know
each other you tend to know who you can play a bit harder against and who
to look after cos they're injured. It also only applies to our training, we
can't control how other teams in the casual league or at tournaments play.